Monday, November 10, 2014

LIKE GAGA, LIKE CHARLEY

My amazingly adorable three year old granddaughter, Charley, loves to line things up. It is almost like it is her job in life to make sure things are arranged in an orderly fashion. Anything & everything needs to be precisely placed in a line.

She will take every block out of the container & carefully set them in a long line on the carpet. This is always done one at a time. And she will walk all the way around the line of blocks to lay the next one in its proper place. It can take a fair amount of time to exactly place each item when the line is eight feet long.

I walked in their house the other day to find three rows of magazines, probably twenty in all, carefully lined up in perfect rows. If we do a puzzle, she will line up each piece as she removes it. Any toys with numerous parts will eventually be arranged in a straight line with careful precision.

She received a set of six small airplanes from the movie “Planes” for her birthday. The first thing she did was start lining them up on the couch. When I reached to straighten one a little, Charley said, “No, Gaga! Leave it!” She has her way of doing it & that is the way it is going to be. It is a cute little idiosyncrasy that we have all come to love & accept about her.

We just moved my dad up here closer to us a few weeks ago. Circumstances all came together which made Allison’s sister, Masha, available to care for my dad so she has moved in with him. Last week she purchased an exercise device. As she sat on the floor to assemble it, Masha took each part from the box setting it neatly on the floor, she looked at me & said, “I feel like Charley.”

The next day as I was organizing my dad’s kitchen cabinets, I suddenly realized something. I was carefully lining up his glasses in the cupboard. The small ones on the right, medium in the middle & large to the left – all in neat rows. Our cupboards at home are arranged exactly that way with everything in its place.

As I thought about it I discovered quite a few interesting facts about myself.

I had carefully placed the liquid hand soap, sanitizer & lotion in a line on the sink with the pumps all facing the same direction.

When I was eating a handful of pretzel sticks at my dad’s, I purposely placed them all in a line on the napkin.

Although I don’t mind a little clutter & many things (my desk, for instance) may appear disorganized & haphazard looking, I do know exactly where things are. But as I continued to observe my various little peculiarities regarding placement of things I found more examples.

I have a rack on the kitchen wall that holds nine coffee mugs. Each mug has its own hook according to size or color & I ALWAYS put them back the same way. When Lou empties the dishwasher & puts my mugs in the “wrong” place, I compulsively change them back.

When I was working at Stiles in Travel, there was always a jar of M & Ms available. If I took a handful, I invariable lined them up according to color then would proceed to eat them one at a time keeping the rows even.

What suddenly dawned on me a few days ago was – Oh…My…God…Charley must get this little quirk of precisely lining things up from me! And I don't mind one little bit. J

Like Gaga, Like Charley.

No comments:

Post a Comment